KEEP
THE LINES OF COMMUNICATION OPEN
The teen years are a time of change
as young people work at developing a sense of physical
self-image. They may experiment with new social roles
as they try out various “looks.”
During this time of life, more than
at any other, self-esteem is closely linked with body
image. Much anxiety can be generated by any defect
or deformity, real or imagined. Young people tend to
be self conscious, and many teens go through periods
when they wish they could change something about their
face. This doesn’t necessarily mean they should
have facial plastic surgery, or even that they want
to. But these concerns do deserve a sympathetic ear.
As your teen matures, he or she will learn that no
one is perfect and that perfection is no guarantee
of success or happiness.
But what if your teenager does have
a facial feature that truly disrupts facial harmony
such as a crooked nose, a receding chin or protruding
ears? First of all, don’t emphasize the defect
and be very careful before suggesting facial plastic
surgery as a solution. Your teenager needs your approval
to develop healthy self-esteem. The desire to change
a facial defect must come from the individual, not
family or friends.
If your child brings up the subject,
listen and try to understand his or her concerns. Many
young people hesitate to ask about facial plastic surgery,
fearing parental disapproval. You may want to assure
your child that you are willing to discuss possibilities.
Talking about surgery doesn’t mean a decision
has been made.
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